The gag is, they're all right, tho. ? If you watched their show Vince was very lowkey mean, strict, controlling, mentally & verbally abusive, and nasty. He just kept it cute enough for the cameras while they were rolling. But you could tell he was mean & controlling & he did tell Tamar don't make me embarrass you & also told the cameraman cut the cameras off once when he got mad and was arguing with her. I knew he was lowkey mean & controlling to her. He played "nice guy" a lot. Glad she left. ?