If you listen to the video there's a part in the sermon where he says, "too many woman who want to be married, walking in the spirit of girlfriend." So to me there was actually an intended audience if you listen closely, so why does everyone seem offended, if you're not trying to get married then....... and besides these words never came out her mouth, she may have consigned on the message but hey it's better than glorifying the hoe-ism culture that is so rampant. Ciara may have had every boyfriend of hers in her music videos, and you can call her a hoe if you want, but I guess she's saying she's went through a few bad apples in the barrel until she found the right one, and she's only showing the the world if you as a female went through that it can change for you.