First his comments are ridiculous!!! Majority of people date people who they want but ita not who they need... Some people stay in situations like that and end up unhappy and miserable.... Because its not what they need... Then people change when someone treats a woman like shes a queen that opens her up to what she deserves... Ciara is a grown woman now back then she was young people grow up and grow up their ways.....and when God is involved he's going to bless you with the best..... look at Letoya Luckett she use to date slim thug and look where shes at now...happy married and about to have her first child by a man who looks the total opposite of slim thug......im sorry but don't hate on the good guys from rescuing women from toxic situations!!