In reply to Holliewuudd.

I've read, heard and clearly understand your broken record of feelings not being a choice. To be clear, I agree with you. My point is, if one has feelings for somebody of the same sex, it's rational and logical to want to act on those feelings - surely that's why those feelings exist? Therfore, choosing to act on those feelings goes beyond being a choice, it borders honoring what comes naturally in any given moment. Do deny oneself the chance to be happy, to feel fulfilled, by not acting on what feels right, THAT is as close to living in sin as it gets, imo. I hope you find your inner peace.