....but how on Earth would your color know you were a virgin just by a routine gynecological visit? With all due respect, your mom should have taken your word for it since you're the only one who'd have that information. Parents need to create safe spaces in which their children feel comfortable enough to discuss sexuality and other pertinent issues that plague children & teenagers. What T.I. is doing isn't old fashioned. It's creepy and intrusive. Instead of these irrelevant "hymen check up's," Mr Harris should be realistically opening the lines of communication with his daughter. Judging by the tweets she's been liking on Twitter - she shares the same sentiments. It's almost 2020. We know better and should be doing better.

(this comment was in response to Ann. IDK what happened to her original comment.)