When people understand that your personal well being and mental health comes first and actually takes steps to put them first on the outside people are cruel so you can’t hide from people such as what’s being said about her looks and hygiene ?? which makes no sense at all on why she’s being attacked on those things alone unless you live with her to know she doesn’t clean herself . It’s not for me to understand but coming from me personally dealing with protecting your energy and mental headspace a lot of things don’t even bother you any more it’s like mumbo jumbo in the background to your life. I applaud her for putting herself first. The world surely will tear you down easily but you have to learn how to get around the unnecessary BS by doing what is best for you first.