Wow. I am stunned that you had experienced these things. It’s so evil that someone could do these things to someone else. And that so called friend of yours was no friend and what he said was vile. How awful. Duffy, you’re a strong ass women for coming forward. I can see how you were processing and found the meaning behind the lower points of your healing. I listened to your songs and album back in the day when I was 17-19. You have a stunning voice and style. And It makes me mad and upset for you that the sob is out there and yet you had so much psychological pain. But I understand why you stepped away. Trauma can take over our lives. I’ve gone through PTSD and the state of panic our mind and bodies are in, can detach us and make us feel as though we don’t matter. It’s like your psych is aware, but you wonder around in this new reality and who are you anyways? It is a strange feeling, but something I experienced when I was fearful of an ex. It haunted my soul in ways I never imagined. My experiences of this took away my joy. But also the sense of security. Through this process it is as if layer on layer of other discoveries are made....something you wrote stood out to me. You said our smiles and our tears make us the same. You’re right girlie. This pain and reality you have, it’s a profound wisdom. You can understand people’s experiences and you found resiliency when you drew conclusions on things like, I’m human. What you are doing by sharing is helping others who are in pain and have experienced pain.

I cannot imagine what you had gone through, but your fans are here for you. I’m glad you are willing to share and have survived! Miss and love you Duff! I hope I get to hear you sing again ❤️❤️❤️