He needs to be able to listen and not just get his point across. The problem people are expressing is that he supports a life of work that may have been used to lure underaged girls into illegal s-e-x acts. The bulk of R. Kelly's music glorifies things that he is now in jail for, so how can Ludacris or anyone else say they love his music? In reality, we're all victims of R. Kelly if he is proven guilty, because a man who sexually abuses a child knows how to manipulate, and R. Kelly possibly used his entire career to manipulate the public and use his income to cover up his crimes. I have no love for a person like that.