In reply to A&R.

He was not comparing the two. What is actually was saying is that trans women or men shouldn't have to run around with a sign that says I am trans. If someone is attracted to them it is not the obligation of the trans person to immediately say hey I'm trans. he said nothing about being in a relationship with a trans person he just simply said being attracted to a trans person. If you find a woman attractive and you ask for her number and she gives you the number are you saying she should write under her number I'm trans? A lot of trans people especially trans women are brutally killed for simply being trans so it is understandable convey what to make sure that they are safe and can trust the person who they are revealing are trans experience to.