The pronoun thing is so that those folks can constantly go around correcting people and feeling superior. You aren’t even in the room 99% of the time when someone calls you “he” or “she”…

Demi The Thirst Bucket just got tired of pretending to be non-binary. No telling what she’ll be next week.

I have no problem addressing a trans person as “he” or “she” if that’s what they present as but I’m not going around calling anyone “they.”