In reply to E Jai.

The fact that people are acting clueless is crazy. So if some random walks up to you and says ni**a, you're going to have a problem because they don't know yall like that. Or a random dude calls you a bit%$, because that's how he talks with his boys. Every gay person is not a monolith. It would be so much easier if yall just say yall like her more and that's why his opinion doesn't matter to you.