Ray J got all sorts of candid about the status of his relationship with sister Brandy during an appearance on Evelyn Lozada‘s podcast, ‘Drop the Lo.’
Once inseparable, the pair’s bond appears to be dented, according to the ‘One Wish’ singer-turned-entrepreneur/reality star.
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Ray J opens up about his relationship with Brandy: “I love my sister… but I’m an embarrassment.” pic.twitter.com/prWWr9yRbf
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When Lozada asked whether Ray and Brandy are “super close” or “good,” the 44-year-old said:
“I love my sister, but I’m an embarrassment to them. I feel like I’m an embarrassment.
There’s certain things that I feel like we should all do as a family that her and my cousin might not agree upon. But, you know, to each his own.
My little niece is 21, 22. She comes and hangs out with Melody and Epik. My kids were over at Brandy’s house two days ago. So Epik calls his auntie every day. He loves his auntie. So we were able to get on the phone through him. He was talking to her and I see her, I’m like, what’s up? But other than that, we haven’t talked. I gotta do me, you know?
It’s like you don’t want me to be me. You want me to be something else. But I’m superceding everything you’re doing.”
He continued:
“It’s just tough because you only feel bad when your family has a problem. Your family is the only people that can get to you. When your mom or your sister or your dad or your cousin start questioning the algorithm, I just feel like it’s not fair and they’re not intelligent enough to know what’s going on in the digital world.
Like, I’ll never go broke. I’ll never have to do the dog and pony show. I love being on stage, but with the sh*t I know and the codes I know, we’ll always be safe.
I know digital and I know survival.”
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So basically he’s a crypto creep lol good for you to keep your distance Brandy
lol sold his S for Diddy
That’s just telling me you don’t have passion for entertainment like your sister does. He is the dog and pony show, without staying around creeps and reality stars , who is he🤷🏽♂️
He’s rich and relevant unlike his vehicular manslaughter committing flop sister😂
While this man was sticking up for Diddy, he need to tell us what happened to Whitney Houston
Never since show girls has someone been so famous for riding on the coat tails of their black friend (in this case Ray J benefitting from dating Whitney or being Brandy’s brother)
Ray ways to be in the club, hanging with the thugs, doing what they do, and always in the middle of whatever nefarious activity is going on. He was tie to the Whitney situation, the Wendy situation, the Puff situation, and those are just the few we know about. If there’s foolishness going on then you can bet Ray J is somewhere in the vacinity. I see why Brandy stopped fooling with him. I would too.