This is sad. Jay is similar to me in that he will ignore you if you do him wrong. An so called outing him or doing anything that looks money driven is one way he’d feel betrayed. You certainly wouldn’t get anything then. Even if his child or not it’s about doing him wrong and disrespect. You can’t double cross by going to the media or to the public to say hey ive been at this man publicize this for me so i can make him do what i want to shame him into getting what I want. And expect him to give you what you want. He might not care now because of how you went about it.

Pray about it and leave him and his family alone. He doesn’t want to be bothered no matter the situation. You running grinding pushing honkering him down after all these years just for the sake of running him down looks more like money and principal. Not love.