I try to show her grace, as a fan and as someone who's publicly shared that she has several health issues like Lupus & Autism... as well as recently finding out her husband had been cheating (so i get the "looking [through] a filter of trauma" part from Lyfe), but a lil more self awareness before we speak could really resolve a lot of her own self inflicted BS. Don't say or do nothing without intention - that way, u don't have to apologize, feel guilty or less than, rebuttal, back track, etc. As n artist with a platform, let the music speak 9x outta 10! Just my personal opinion that no 1 asked for ;)