what are you even talking about??? god forbid young (black) women have fun with music. FLO has multiple songs not about sex and even if they didn't, they are young women! they are in happy relationships! they have sex! if you don't like it, you don't have to listen! nobody's forcing you!! mind you, Brandy & Monica both also have songs about sex / love / relationships. get over it! you prudes are so miserable. on top of all that, you spelled aesthetic wrong.