This is what having the title and prestige is all about. She married into "The Firm," which owes its current existence to the charity work and ceremonial functions performed by royal family for the British government. It's like being Miss America (OR Miss UK) ALL THE TIME.

She's not getting even half of the scrutiny they put on Princess Diana. She needs to either do the appearances or not; and it appears not, since they are no longer practicing royals.