Bitter Betty needs to focus on her life and a man and stay out of her 37/38 yr old daughters relationships. Bitter Betty is upset that Kandi won't be at her every beck and call and will have a family of her own. Kandi said her mom has never been happy for her in any relationship. But its also Kandi's fault for not setting boundaries. So Kandi has a big part of the blame too for keeping this going. It couldve been nipped in the butt a loooooooooooooong time ago.