This is one of the first TGJ threads that actually doesn't have a bunch of nonsense in it. She definitely has the right to address him and let him know that it's not ok. The thing is, she was not saying that she was personally offended. She was being responsible because she knows the platform she has, and if she did not say something, that supposed "term of endearment" could easily be taken to a different level. A place where his pet name could be used in other circumstances in a pejorative manner. Honestly, his reaction to her merits a very stern talking to from the producers (at the very least). She tried to handle it in a very calm way and he essentially spit in her face; when she was already down. It's so sad that people can be so callous.