You know it breaks my heart that people put so much emphasis on what a man should be. Because in all actuality no one can give a definitive answer because it will always vary in response. I don't know the man but from what I can see he has a good head on shoulders, treats his wife like a queen, is her voice of reason and clearly her better half and is actively there for his children. What more could you ask for? Sure he may not be super masculine but does that really make him any less of a man?