This Porsha and Kandi mess has gotten ridiculous, but I still give Porsha some credit for trying to clean this mess up without airing it all out on TV. Porsha said during her meeting with Kandi that she had been trying to call, but that Kandi had not been taking her calls. Clearly, Porsha was trying to clean this up off-camera, but since Kandi thought she had the stronger hand, she decided to air it out on the show. Porsha tried to intervene earlier this season, but that went nowhere too, though if Porsha really wanted to control the mess, she wouldn't have confided anything shady to Sheree and she would have checked Phaedra about doing so as well.