Kandi is a ring leading bully just like her mama Kenya needs a life outside of the show she has nothing going on and Kenya wanted to sleep with apollo if that was porsha disrespectful of anyone marriage on the show everyone would be in a uproar Phaedra had the right to be mad at a woman who wanted her husband kandi is mad that her secret of having threesomes is known look at all these people getting divorce , women think having threesomes is making their marriage strong I'm sure Todd is behind her back hooking up with other women