In reply to S****** Blonde.

Lmao. Is that a real question? Racist White people marry black people and have black children all the time. No one is not racist by association. The "How can I be racist if I have a black bf/husband/child?" is stupid and it's no surprise that it's being used by you. That's like asking, How can a man be sexist if he has a daughter/wife? Why would a man adopt a daughter if he's sexist?