I’m sorry but she said that this has been going on for some time and just now want to talk? The mother is doing a bit much when in fact she says that she afraid for her child/grandchild life but in fact went along with this kind of abuse for however long it went on. Life is to precious to even think to wait until it gets out of hand or near death to finally be the one doing all the talking now when in fact she should have said something when it first started. Why is Tamar not talking? The mom needs to stop and allow Tamar to speak her truth ?