Has anyone noticed that when two men are arguing about gender or sexuality the go to insult is “you’re a bottom.” It’s so telling and indicative of how people who claim to be progressives really see themselves. Notice how no one ever disses someone by calling them a top? That’s because even in gay sex there is a necessity for one person to play the dominant role and for one to lay down and take it. That’s why I’m laughing at that swine who thought they were dissing me by saying I was bottom. I have NEVER taken it up the azz and you wouldn’t be able to say with a 100 percent certainty that i have so how did you conclude that I was a “self hating power bottom” and not a “self hating power top.”? I’d love to know.