In reply to JOHNVIDAL.

Once again, you have misunderstood me, I’m aware that each human being possesses qualities of the other sex, that doesn’t mean that we as human being should identify with both genders, and NO, I’m not attracted to masculine guys, actually the opposite, I think guys with a little femininity in them are cute, but nothing over-the top, so no self hate here, I’m myself a normal guy, not too masculine, I actually thing must straight guys are like that too, The over- hyper masculine guys are almost nonexistent, that’s something that most feminine gay guys dream of/or perceive in others, because of the difference personalities between fem and mas, I don’t understand why masculinity is so hated by gay men, you just say that I hate myself, that’s what all of you say when you hear others say that they prefer masculine guys, like you said, you’re attracted to what you’re attracted and that’s it, you can’t control that, most of you are hypocrites anyway, you want all gay men to embrace their true self (femininity) but then, don’t want to date them, because y’a want a MAN, two bottoms don’t make a top, there’s got to be a balance, even between males and females, so this is not something specific to gays, it’s nature. If anything, gay men are reluctant towards anything they perceive as “masculine”, the majority of gay men hate masculine gay guys because they think they are acting, or trying not to be themselves, that’s wrong, the only thing I’m saying is that being gay doesn’t equal femininity, gay men are still men, so why are gay men so negative towards masculinity, that’s all, the majority of Gay men are on the feminine side, why?