In reply to Keira ♥.

If your man is cheating on you then he is not your man solely. Whatever happened to dating and developing trust before having sex? I guess I am too old fashioned. If I were single and dating a guy that was DL and found out he was cheating I would be sad for a minute but then smile because I'm keeping all the expensive gifts he bought me and I never gave him sex so I am not at risk of catching anything. If more women thought and acted like me there would be way more happily married couples in the world. Sex before a committed serious relationship or marriage does not mean anything really these days so I say don't do it unless you are looking for a quick meaningless hookup.