Like a lot of women we feel as if we have done something to cause the abuse especially if we have suffered childhood abuse. She's in the public eye so I can understand her reluctancy to file charges in the beginning of the marriage. Men know what they are doing, he knew she loved him and her NEED for him to love her back, instead he belittled her by calling her names, ie...fat and god knows what else. I've been there and shes doing the right thing Now that's whats important