In reply to Selina.

The only thing I disagree on though is your comment about "We all know that black men are seen as the most sexually desirable within the gay community"
That couldn't be further from the truth. Gay black men are the least desired. Create a fake account on Grindr or Tinder etc and see how many clicks and blocks you get. Slim pickens. Or, check the instagram of white gays and see how many black friends, male or female they have. Won't find many. Yes, you do have a select few who fetishize about BBC (big black "caulk") but that's it. Romantically and or for friendship, black men (and women) don't really exist in the gay community. To get any kind of attention in the gay community you have to white or Spanish/Latin and in decent shape. And that whole thing for gay rights was intended for gay whites.