Miss Hernandez needs to shut up and sit down. She's never been a wife and has no experience on that front. As for being a mother.... And I use the term loosely...she shows her ass and tits, talks stupid, curses and uses drugs. She's just a hot ass mess. being a mother is a full-time job for those who can manage the task. Toya chooses to be a stay-at-home mom because her husband can afford for her to be and she's a very maternal person. Something Miss Hernandez would know nothing about.