In reply to Paulo.

Down low? Pride in who you shag when its no business but yours and that person? What makes it so important to reveal this to strangers? Not being sarcastic, I really want to understand why the gays place such a spotlight on alerting the world who they like to shag. Again, it not anyone's business...and to assert that keeping ones sexual proclivities private is them being "down low" to me just means that you are a person who wants strangers to know everything about you. Why not tell them everything? Tell them your credit score, how much money you have, tell them how you wipe your ass - backwards or forward- tell them that you're about to pick your nose, etc. I'm being phecetious but I'm sure you get the point.
People will know if you're gay or not by your tendency to show them without explicitly telling them. Just by simply living your life people will usually know...and if they don't but want to, then tell them! But the unsolicited announcements aren't necessary.