Easier said than done. August is very appealing and it was new. We asked women not often can risk the temptation - will try it and deal with the consequences later. He was younger but he wasn't a child. They both played a role - they both wanted each other - that's life. I believe there is no blame. They did what they wanted to do and them - only them have to deal with it . A lot of hurt has been fished out - but mistakes - good or bad is a part of life.