I'm really not understanding his reasoning for trying to make a public problem out of this. Wendy doesn't have to answer to her father through you, who the hell are you? And the fact that you're doing this publicly with an attitude really shows more about your true colors. Wendy has her own reasons for not attending, especially is she went to the wake and had to view her mothers body before hand to approve it. If she didn't want to attend, she didn't have to. People miss services all the time.