Judge Mathis please work out your differences I know how Linda feels been through the same thing my husband was a lot like you Friends I was always third and we were married 40 yrs but it's too much to write but keep your business private and stay off the internet I loved watching you and your TV shows Family is Important We weren't professional people but we both worked and retired from pretty decent jobs 33 yrs. So please work this out you have a beautiful family. My husband passed in 2015 after 40 yrs of marriage. It's not easy out here anymore FIX IT