In reply to Ms. Ling Ling.

That happens in so many same-race marriages too. You can not project your mindset or your experience onto other people; it's not true. You can have two people exactly from the same country and same culture, but they have many more problems in the marriage than international couples. It's not about that. If God created that one person for your life, no matter if the person is Black or White, it will work out. Just because someone is your race doesn't mean he is directly meant for you. African and US Black people are both Black but have two different cultures—just facts.