The-Dream Posts Public Statement About “Failed” Marriage

Published: Friday 16th Jul 2010 by Trent

In response to the publicity stunt swirling controversy surrounding his marriage to Christina Milian, The-Dream has decided to break his silence  and issue a statement regarding the situation via his official site. Mr. Nash has taken “full responsibility” for the situation and noted that his marriage to the singer had been “failing” for a while. Peep what he had to say below:

In My Own Words:

First I want to thank God for the trials of life, without them we can’t know purpose!

I would love to tell the truth as to why my relationship wasn’t successful, but today that is between me and Christina.  Its easy to say that it’s because of another woman or a new relationship but truthfully, IT’S NOT.

I take FULL RESPONSIBILITY for misleading everyone into thinking everything was fine and okay when we knew problems existed for awhile!  I wanted to speak up but we decided it wasn’t for anyone to know.  I would NEVER intentionally hurt a soul and everyone around me knows that!  There was so much going on in me and Christina’s personal world that I tried to deal with it as delicately as I could and tried to regain my footing.  Instead of being direct in order not to cause even more hurt or hurt someone’s feelings, I carried the weight in secret!

I am Human and people fall in and out of Love all the time… This is Life.  Nothing’s promised or perfect, neither am I.  I am not proud that I lost something we once had…LOVE!  I’ve always been a Loving Father, Hard Worker, Generous, Stern and Eager to prove myself.  My faults are I can be irresponsible and an ass sometimes, but I HAVE NEVER and WILL NEVER be a malicious person or wish harm to anyone, especially those I love or the mother of my child.  I’m sorry for the embarrassment to everyone involved!  If there’s anyone to blame and you can’t fathom this happening, please blame me and me alone for not being upfront!  Even though we were trying to overcome personal things between us, I was just simply scared and embarrassed to let everyone know we WERE FAILING and HAVE NOW FAILED!

This is not to justify anything, it’s true emotion! It’s a real thing that involves real people!  I’ve cried about this for months, after interviews, after prayer and I’ve tried to take my own life at a point because of the failure that was looming.

But I was reminded by my MOTHER that I am not “Superman” and its okay to lose sometimes…

This too shall pass! And everything will be fine!

~ Terius Nash ~

Thanks for clearing that up Mr. Nash. Here’s hoping that this entire fiasco helps your album sales as it’s just a few copies away from being certified plastic.

Sidebar: Anybody else notice how he was careful to differentiate between those that he loves and the mother of his child?


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  1. Joseph McCoy July 16, 2010

    He’s got a point.

    I still don’t like him.

    BUT he has a point.

    He’s human.

    We don’t know what happened in our relationship.

    So how about we … stay the f*** out of it.

  2. Busta Rats July 16, 2010


  3. Jasmine July 16, 2010

    This is b*******. He could have wrote something more real than this since he produces songs. How could being married to Christina Milian be that hard? In the words of Toni Braxton, “He Was Not Man Enough.”

  4. Lady Rhioncey July 16, 2010

    u used to liek this nggah,,, not no more tho.. he’s lame..

    team millian!!!

  5. Lady Rhioncey July 16, 2010

    you can be a sweet dream or a chubby nightmare..

  6. Jazzybelle July 16, 2010

    everyone knew you were a certified douchebag anyway

  7. stan July 16, 2010



  8. wtf July 16, 2010

    read that load of bull…when he hired paps to take pictures of him and his side piece they were having fun and now all of sudden its this i am human talk.. what about when he issued that insensitive press release?? he is constantly arrogant and now wants us to believe he is sorry and has a heart..GTFOHHHHHHHH….his stunt failed and i am glad cmilli has been quiet..let this idiot continue to look like a fool in front of the media by himself…
    i will wait to hear your side cmilli when you have gone through all the emotions unlike this fat ugly bat!! his face makes me puke!!!

  9. nothing but my opinion July 16, 2010

    lmao at the prince side eye gif!

  10. JT July 16, 2010

    Stole the Prince side-eye idea from D-Listed, huh?

  11. Bobby Rae July 16, 2010

    @JT that gif has been all over the web so I don’t get your point. You expect them to start making gifs too?

    The-Dream is a fat clown & we all know that this s*** been planned for a while to help save his album. NEXT!

  12. bluekid July 16, 2010

    From the very beginning it was Christina Milian in love with The Dream, I could see it in her eyes, she felt like she had the catch of the century.

    Poor Christina Milian, she needs lessons from Rihanna, you just f#cking for tracks, you don’t fall in love with em” LOL!

  13. Nique July 16, 2010

    LMAO. Where’s that Wendy Williams “I Can’t” gif when you need it?

    Anywho, what the hell is up all the CAPITALIZED WORDS and exclamation points!? As if we wouldn’t understand that b******* excuse without all that. In any case, this s*** is just sloppy. He should’ve just said nothing and let people believe what they want (since it’s not really our business anyway) but to come with weak ass “statement”? LOL.

  14. FreshUrbanEnt July 16, 2010



  15. The Last Song July 16, 2010


    Watching a Susan Boyle interview is seemingly more interesting than reading what this heffa has to say!!!!


  16. ~The Art Installation~ July 16, 2010

    Love Flop King (the album) will be certified gold in the year 2020!
    @Lady Rhioncey LMAO!!!!!

  17. remmy July 16, 2010

    I was wondering when people were going to figure out that this was bs… if you ask me I think he’s trying to make a confessions type album next about this whole relationship…only thing is we don’t care…

  18. Jascey July 16, 2010

    “you can be a sweet dream or a chubby nightmare..”


    but yes TEAM MILIAN. Dream is a coward I hate him now.

  19. CC July 16, 2010

    I knew it was a mistake for them to get married all along. Christina is way to good for him, and he seems like a first class d*****.

    Lol at the certified plastic comment…

  20. MistyMae84 July 16, 2010

    So what about Nivea. Did he intend to not hurt her as well. Things that make you wonder

  21. Delia Torres July 16, 2010

    He so dam lame…and his sobb story. I hope it made him feel better at the end of the day..Dumb Ass….If he so called loved hiz kid and wife he would have never ever hurt them like that..He did say he knew they had problems so ssshhhit …he could have prevented this by letting her go first then going ahead and screwing hiz assistant… i personally always thought he is wak. he aint got no kind of style..and he comes off to me at least as conceited…Christina you gonna be alright I personally dont know what the f$#@ you seen in him…cause all i see is BELLY….LMFAO

  22. Misty July 16, 2010

    The Dream HIMSELF is a failure!

    ” I HAVE NEVER and WILL NEVER be a malicious person or wish harm to anyone, especially those I love or the mother of my child. ”
    What do you call canoodling with your jumpoff on a public beach where you can be spotted?

    ” I’m sorry for the embarrassment to everyone involved!”
    He embarrassed himself the MOST by being topless at the beach with an UGLY jumpoff, but I guess birds of a feather…

    “If there’s anyone to blame and you can’t fathom this happening, please blame me and me alone for not being upfront!”
    We do. YOU lied and YOU stepped out of your marriage. At least divorce Christina and have respect for her and YOUR child!

    ” I’ve cried about this for months, after interviews, after prayer and I’ve tried to take my own life at a point because of the failure that was looming.”
    When did you try to take your life? Was it somewhere between the clubbin’ you were doing while Christina was at home with Violet and sleeping with your assistant?

    “But I was reminded by my MOTHER that I am not “Superman” and its okay to lose sometimes…”
    Go on ahead and blame ya Mama…NOW he wants to me a mama’s boy. Too bad he couldn’t respect his daughters mother!

    Verdict: The Dream is an EPIC fail, this won’t help his sales, and Christina will be ok!

  23. royalkev July 16, 2010

    This is so lame! Not only has Dream engage in this romance with Christina’s BF, he openly puts himself in a position to publicly embarrass his wife by getting caught out in the open with this woman. I don’t care for the implication of how he’d love to tell us the “truth as to why the relationship wasn’t successful” either. It seems to suggest that she should take part in the blame. I’m not certain if she should, but she had the decency to keep such matters private. Dream is human and he is allowed to make mistakes, but his actions are questionable. I think he should really use better judgement.

  24. she wants suicide money July 16, 2010

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  25. JANETALLDAYERDAY July 16, 2010

    @ ROYAL KEV….you are totally right!!! He also has a history of being a s*** w****. He even tried to holler at my bff years ago at a party. While he was dating Nivea. He has various issues apparently. Im glad he is out of her life, Christina deserves BETTER and that LOSER is where he belongs ALONE.

  26. True Blue July 16, 2010

    “I’ve cried about this for months, after interviews, after prayer and I’ve tried to take my own life at a point because of the failure that was looming.”

    BOO-F******-HOO!!! What a loser! I highly doubt he ever attempted suicide, he’s just trying to turn this around to make himself look like the victim. What a douchebag, I’m glad Christina got rid of his sorry, tired ass. Oh yeah, and he’s a LAZY father, too. He said in an interview with Essence magazine that he refuses to help out with the baby because his helping out “turns into expectations”. He said if Christina’s tired, she should call the nanny or her grandma instead.


  27. tiana July 16, 2010

    i wonder what these men left the women to do it seems like the p****** soon start gash

  28. British Bells July 17, 2010

    He’s so full of it.

  29. Luv-Lee July 17, 2010


  30. MrsNASH August 16, 2010

    Everyone get off his nuts !! OK iMust admit this hole saga has been a bit deep but KMT who doesnt make mistakes??? Foools ! && no his sales arent to good atm..but all the best for future collaborations and writing he plans on doing..!!!

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