Tamar Braxton Responds To “He’s Gay” Backlash / Implies She Was Talking About Ex-Husband

Published: Friday 15th Nov 2019 by Sam

Tamar Braxton is attempting to mop up the controversial comments she made about men who “don’t touch” their women.

For, the R&B belter received ample backlash from corners of the gay community for seemingly weaponising homosexuality.

Indeed, as reported, the ‘Love & War’ wailer took to Instagram “these dudes out here really do be gay. They want D*CK. PeriodT” 

She went on to add: “If he lays with you for 3, 4, 10 days and he don’t touch u, it’s not you. HE WANT A MAN. And that’s on my Momma!”

Beyond infuriating some groups, Braxton cast the cloud of doubt (and speculation) over her own relationship with Nigerian entrepreneur David Adesefo. 

Now, she’s elaborating and implies it was her ex-husband she was referencing…

First, though, she took to Twitter, saying:

“I shouldn’t have been in My feelings, &ranted on social media based off a conversation with my friends. I was talking about me but not me and David. I’ve been through a lot.”

When a user claimed she was “forced to apologize,” she replied:

“This is what we are NOT going to do. I wasn’t FORCED to apologize for ANYTHING!! Let’s state FACTS!! I have OPENLY been apart of the lgbt community since the 4th grade!My ENTIRE staff is as well!!And I will continue 2support. But I will also make FACTUAL statements about MY LIfE.

So STOP with that BS!!! Find something else!!! PERIODT!! It’s Ridiculous to even accuse me of offending my friends, my staff and my close love ones!! I can speak out about my life!!! it is completely OFFENSIVE to me and the life I truly Live!! This stops NOW!!”

Then, surrounded by her besties, Braxton cites her first marriage (pre Vince Herbert) as she unpacks


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  1. Bluebird November 15, 2019

    Tamar, and her big mouth. How bout we do a show and focus on the vocals, here’s a set list — maybe this will keep you from being a total clown….and stop singing those low-budget uptempos (hot sugar – corny)…..you have great vocals and songs:
    1. Stay and Fight
    2. The One
    3. Love and War
    4. Simple things
    5. Broken Record
    6. If I don’t have you
    7. KING
    8. the makings of you
    9. Heart in my hands

    • Only Facts November 15, 2019

      “Stay and Fight” is seriously R&B perfection! And don’t even get me started on “Pieces”. WHEW!

      But her damn attitude overshadows her music!

    • ? Jasmine’s Grape Juice ? ? November 15, 2019

      What about her debut album, the one this DL ex husband helped produce? I like ‘money cant buy u love and Get Mine and If u dont wanna love me. She never sings those songs

  2. Clarkson November 15, 2019

    Top Billboard 200 Debut Female Albums of the Decade:
    #1 The Fame
    #2 Invasion Of Privacy
    #3 Pure Heroine
    #4 When We All Fall Asleep, Where Do We Go?
    #5 Title
    #6 19
    #7 I Dreamed a Dream
    #8 Pink Friday
    #9 CTRL
    #10 Animal
    #11 Born to Die
    #12 Camila

    My faves at number 12. Camila domination

    • TheTea November 15, 2019

      ****HOT TEA******

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      We – Ladies and Gentlemen – have been played.

      The thirst for page clicks is real.

      ****HOT TEA******

      • Hey you November 15, 2019

        I can totally believe that.

      • Tyty November 15, 2019

        I believe it!!

      • Clarkson November 15, 2019

        I thought yall said I was a white old trànny

        Now I live in london and I’m a paid troll

        When they hate hearing the truth from u, they come up with all sorts of things to demonize u and discredit u

        This shows what I’m saying on the blog is the truth and I’m upsetting yall with the truth

        I wonder what yall will come up with next

        I’m a Russian bot
        I’m a trump supporter
        I’m KKK


      • Danny Bey November 15, 2019

        We been knew. This site used to be it. So unfortunate to see what it’s become. A Trash clickbait site

    • Only Facts November 15, 2019

      And look where she is, right under Meghan Trainor. Remember, her career will end up just like Meghan’s. Stalled after the second album. When was the last time one of Meghan’s songs was in the top 40? LOL. BYE CAMILA! Enjoy this second album and “tour”

  3. Tori November 15, 2019

    This was literally a bad joke, why are people trying to push it to the extreme? Let this s*** go, Tamar has been saying saying sideways s*** since she was reintroduced to the scene and it’s clear she not going to change so who cares at this point.

  4. 2bad2bme November 15, 2019

    B&%ch you were the one that brought it up. So how are we accusing? See the reason you are not as successful as your sis Toni is because of your mouth. SHUT UP!

  5. Hmmm… November 15, 2019

    She’s a part of the lgbt community? In what way? That’s like saying, I’m white but I like black people, participate in black culture, and my friends are black so I’m a part of the black community.

  6. Truth November 15, 2019

    She always talk s*** then play the victim. She is so annoying. I hope Vincent sue that ass for deformation. She had no business putting that man’s business out there like that if it’s TRUE. She going to rant on the wrong person one day.

    • Interac November 15, 2019

      She’s not talking about Vincent. She was married before Vincent.

  7. XYZ November 15, 2019

    We all know she is not some homophobic woman and supports the community. I appreciate her amswer

    • Clarkson November 15, 2019

      She is homophobic

      She supports the gay community cause this is the only community that put money in her pocket.

      • Bluebird November 15, 2019

        EXCUSE ME. Her Ugly Best Friend is G_ay. The guy LaTroy with the bad skin.

      • Clarkson November 15, 2019

        Racist have black friends

        Trump is friends with ben Carson

      • XYZ November 15, 2019


        What has she done that is homophobic? Right now it looks like she is more on our side than on the side of homophobics.

    • Clarkson November 15, 2019

      Gurl her statement is homophobic as hell

      U cant see it cause ur uneducated

      Claiming a man is gay cause he doesnt want sèx from u is homophobic

      It’s also misogynistic. Cause ur indirectly saying all women are good for is sèx

      • ? Jasmine’s Grape Juice ? ? November 15, 2019

        Well if a man dont want from sexx from u he is gay. #FACTS. He could be cheating around with a bunch of women but when he gets home he is still going to want it from u from time to time plus real men know they have an obligation to hold down the house financially and sexxually. Otherwise, what is his purpose? T***** Clarkson u dont know what u are talking about because u are a know it all t*****! You are not a woman so shut it. Also, her comments are realistic not homophobic!

      • XYZ November 15, 2019

        Thats not homophobic at all.

        It’s bitter, shows low self esteem and shows a bit misandry.

        She did not say anything against gays, moreover she said something against straight men and has put pressure on them.

  8. I love big black c** November 15, 2019

    Lol black Britney Spears shaved her head. Lmao she suffers mental breakdown?

  9. Nicky November 15, 2019

    You’re a grown woman who has no command of the English language, speaking like you’re in your teens.

    • Clarkson November 15, 2019

      Camila won 2 latin grammys yesterday

      I thought u said she won’t win

      • ? Jasmine’s Grape Juice ? ? November 15, 2019

        Nobody cares about the wetback grammies so shut it!

  10. S.U.P.E.R.S.T.A.R.!. November 15, 2019

    Tamar was NOT talking about Vince. She knows that Vince is straight. He dated a white woman while he was dating Tamar and EVEN SLEPT WITH HER the day BEFORE he and Tamar married. Vince has a daughter with the woman as well.

    Tamar just does too much sometimes.

  11. Robert November 15, 2019

    When are we going to admit that Tamar at the very lease is Bipolar ASF! That combined with her low ass IQ. She prob couldn’t comprehend literature on an 8th-grade level, but we keep listening to these people. Dear God, Toni had it so right when she had her tucked in the background.

  12. Jay November 15, 2019

    No, you bald-headed b!!!tch. You were talking about men period. Stop lyin. If he wanted a man, you made it easy for him balding your head like that.

  13. KIKI November 15, 2019

    this old lady always apologizing about the same childish s***!

    Grow up already and stop being SORRY!

    sorry ass people are corny!

  14. Unnatural November 15, 2019

    Her gay squad. Pathetic

  15. stan November 15, 2019

    you can’t deny tamar’s talent, but she ALWAYS sabotages herself. sigh.

  16. High Price November 15, 2019

    Tamar, just Stfu! PLEASE. People are obviously irritated by your views. Where’s the musi!?!

    • Casual November 15, 2019

      It’s coming. I got two bahmb a** songs for her, if I can get them to her. Both tracks are 98% done — just have to do some final tweaks to the vocals on both tomorrow. Wish me luck!

      And yes, this is for real.

  17. Lana Bey Fan November 16, 2019

    Tamar is annoying, but homophobic would never even cross my mind with her. She doesn’t give off that vibe and never did.

  18. Hermon November 17, 2019

    Women forget that men work and work hard nobody wants a nagging woman or a complaining woman maybe she wasn’t freaky enough it’s two sides to every story

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