Megan Thee Stallion on Tory Lanez Shooting: “I’m Changing the Narrative, I’m More Than Just My Trauma”

Published: Tuesday 18th Apr 2023 by Sam

Megan Thee Stallion stands tall on the cover and the femcee does so with purpose.

After a harrowing two years navigating the aftermath of being shot, the rapper triumphed in court last December when Tory Lanez was convicted for carrying out the heinous crime.

Now, the Houston native is looking forward and defining her story on her terms.

Beyond posing it up for a stunning shoot lensed by Adrienne Raquel, the Hot Girl Coach penned an open letter reflecting on the drama, her treatment, and what her story looks like as she moves on.

Pics and quotes below…

“My purpose is for these words to serve as the final time that I’ll address anything regarding this case in the press. I understand the public intrigue, but for the sake of my mental health, I don’t plan to keep reliving the most traumatic experience of my life over and over again. I’m choosing to change the narrative because I’m more than just my trauma.

I don’t want to call myself a victim. As I reflect on the past three years, I view myself as a survivor, because I have truly survived the unimaginable. Not only did I survive being shot by someone I trusted and considered a close friend, but I overcame the public humiliation of having my name and reputation dragged through the mud by that individual for the entire world to see.”

“For years, my attacker laughed and joked about my trauma. For years, my attacker peddled false narratives about what happened on the night of July 12, 2020. For years, my attacker tried to leverage social media to take away my power. Imagine how it feels to be called a liar every day? Especially from a person who was once part of your inner circle.”

“When I was younger, my parents warned me about being too trusting. My daddy used to say, “Just because somebody smiles in your face doesn’t mean they’re really down for you.” My parents emphasized the importance of protecting my spirit, but even as I went to school every day, I naïvely believed that everyone came with pure intentions and wanted to be my friend. Over the years, I realized that certain people didn’t need a logical reason to be hateful or mean, but my sympathetic side still wanted to give others the benefit of the doubt. Unfortunately, it took until this devastating experience for me to fully grasp the magnitude of my parents’ message back then.”

“[During the ordeal] I started falling into a depression. I didn’t feel like making music. I was in such a low place that I didn’t even know what I wanted to rap about. I wondered if people even cared anymore. There would be times that I’d literally be backstage or in my hotel, crying my eyes out, and then I’d have to pull Megan Pete together and be Megan Thee Stallion.

It never crossed my mind that people wouldn’t believe me. Still, I knew the truth and the indisputable facts would prevail. I had worked way too hard to reach this point in my career to let taunts deter me. When the guilty verdict came on Dec. 23, 2022, it was more than just vindication for me, it was a victory for every woman who has ever been shamed, dismissed, and blamed for a violent crime committed against them.”

“I’m in a happier place, but I still have anxiety. Talking about being shot still makes me emotional. I’ve started journaling as a way to better process my thoughts, hopes, and fears. Prayer has also played a therapeutic role in my healing, because I can have honest and unfiltered conversations with God without any judgment.”

“I’m also getting more comfortable with saying “no” to protect my peace. In the past, there were times when I did things simply to please others and not because I truly wanted to do them. Those days are over. I’m putting myself first now because I know what I like, I know what I don’t like, I know what I’m not going to tolerate, and I know what I can endure because I’ve been battle-tested for so long. I’m ready to show everybody that all the dirt they threw at me didn’t stick.”

Your thoughts?

[Photo Credit: Elle / Adrienne Raquel]

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  1. ThickSis April 18, 2023

    The GP moved on from her. Ice Spice is the new it girl.

    • Garbaj April 19, 2023

      Who the f u ck is icespice ? Half hit wonder & fifth wheel of garbaj

  2. BeyKnowlesBest April 18, 2023

    As a true barb I hope her a Nicki make up so Megan Nicki and ice spice can finish that duck face girl sharti b‼️

    • NO GARBS ALLOWED April 18, 2023

      The same Cardi who gave Meg the biggest (AND LAST) hit of her career?? LMAO f*** you!

      • BeyKnowlesBest April 18, 2023

        Stfu they gave each other there biggest hits Megan killed her on her own song that trash girl cannot rap, and her fan base has been extremely touchy lately lol take a chill pill you Stan for an industry plant that the industry has decided to unplant idiots ‼️

      • NO GARBS ALLOWED April 18, 2023

        Miss Mamas UP went #1 after WAP. When was Meg’s last #1 or anything close for that matter? I’ll wait… Let’s not pretend her last era didn’t bomb significantly LMAOOO everything you saying is irrelevant it’s giving big hater. Cardi still booking stages with an old ass album from 5 years ago. Plant that peasant!

    • Credits April 18, 2023

      You should be worried about Latto. She can actually rap.

      • UHoesFunny April 18, 2023

        Cardi and Latto are BOTH rap pawns and FLOPS 💀 Cardi have a dead performance at Rolling Loud in Thai Land. Nobody knew her lyrics and the crowd was dead 😂🤣🤣🤣 neither of them have a charting hit in 2023

    • Dc April 18, 2023

      Bodak yellow and i like it 11 x platinum so don’t act like meg gave cardi her biggest hit meg will never see 11 x platinum unless wap gets certified

  3. Hitormiss April 18, 2023

    Moral of the story is don’t hang out with witches and warlocks

  4. nickibby April 18, 2023

    Are we sure Meghan isn’t a male?

    • Detruth April 18, 2023

      Lmao I still think she lied about him shooting her but whatevs

      • Credits April 18, 2023

        Then why didn’t Tory tell us who did?

    • Garbaj April 19, 2023

      Sicki garbaj can be

  5. Miss Ling Ling April 18, 2023

    Was she posing for wal mart fashion week?

  6. Credits April 18, 2023

    She looks soooo good! I know Nicki is seething! 😂

    • Jerry April 18, 2023

      Meg looks like Doug in the face. Nicki chews her up. Her face card don’t decline baby.

      • #ARMS April 18, 2023

        Arms is bitter, washed and old.

  7. True Tea April 18, 2023

    I must admit Megan absolutely killed this photo shoot and this is coming from a Barb. I have nothing against Megan and I wish her the best. Her statements here made a lot of sense. Megan has awaken and finally realized the f*ckbois can’t do nothing for you.

  8. Toni Bryant April 19, 2023

    The situation that Megan was in; she could have died. She didn’t Thank God. I’m sure Megan will triumph in this mess.

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