Usher: "It’s Hard Staying Faithful To Tameka"

Published: Monday 9th Jun 2008 by Sam
Usher: 'It's Hard Staying Faithful To Tameka' In a recent interview Usher admits that he finds it difficult staying faithful to his wife of eight months, Tameka. Check out the story below via Contact Music:

Reformed womaniser USHER fights a daily battle to stay faithful and true to his wife TAMEKA, because he’s “not good” at being in love.

The singer married the stylist last September (07) and two months later she gave birth to their first child, Usher Raymond V.
And while Usher insists marriage and commitment have changed his life for the better, he admits monogamy doesn’t come naturally to him – and he has to fight his wandering eye.

The star tells Cosmopolitan magazine, “I’m good at making love, but I’m not good at being in love. It’s a conscious decision every day to love the person you’re with.”

Though I try to keep my commentary on his relationship with Tameka to a minimum, I can’t help but wonder (aloud) why he seems like he has to prove how much he loves her to everyone. Just a thought…


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  1. Anonymous June 9, 2008

    That’s cause he’s cheating on her already.

  2. Anonymous June 9, 2008

    Is Britney planning on leaving Jive Records and manager Larry Rudolph? Well according to X17, she just might. “Brit was visiting with Geffen Records head honcho, David Geffen… Brit spent Sunday afternoon at Geffen’s multi-million dollar Malibu beach home. David hosted Britney for at least an hour, according to our source, and then Brit hoofed it back to the Geffen-owned Malibu Beach Inn where she has stayed on occasion. We believe she spent Saturday night at the hotel and spent most of Sunday there.

    Universal Music Group’s VP, Paul Cooper told me today, “I don’t know anything about it.” I can bet he’s making some calls now, though! Calls to Geffen publicity have not yet been returned and we’re still waiting to hear from Larry Rudolph and from Sony BMG/Jive Records.”

    Britney shot a cameo in a music video for the Pussycat Dolls last week, who are represented by you guessed it… Geffen (Interscope.)

    Take control, Britney!

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  3. Anonymous June 9, 2008

    Usher please shut up.

  4. Anonymous June 9, 2008

    IMO I think he keeps talking about his wife because the media keeps asking and it’s a chance for him to clear up all the nasty rumors about his marriage. Some people believe everything the bloggers say and some people believe everything the celebrities say. Noone really knows the truth except the people involved.

  5. perlas June 9, 2008

    idk i still hate usher for what he said about chili and i Stopped myself from buying his album because of it. Wtf “ur good at making love” damn are you that conceited and insecure at the same time. he dont love that girl. he just f***** her and got in a hole that he couldnt get out off. I know hes tryna bag beyonce and secretly i now he wants chili back. but bee got Jay and Chilli aint gonna get him back espescially aafter the s*** he said and Tameka will probbly tie em up if he tries to leave. hes just trying so hard to make Tameka think he loves her when he dont. this will end up badly.

  6. La La Lemonn June 9, 2008

    OK SO LETS PUT THIS SPIN ON USHER CONSTANTLY PROMOTING HIS MARRIAGE: MAYBE HE ISN’T PROVING IT TO OTHERS, MAYBE HE’S PROVING IT TO HIMSELF. IT’S POSSIBLE HE WASN’T IN MARRIAGE MODE BUT WHEN SHE GOT PRGENANT, HE WANTED TO DO THE HONRABLE THING. HE DECIDED TO MAKE AND KEEP THIER RELATIONSHIP PUBLIC, SO NOW HE HAS ALL THE ATTENTION FROM HIS DEDICATED LUST FILLED STALKERS TELLING HIM WHAT HE’S MISSING BEING MARRIED. I THINK HE’S GETTING THE 7 YR ITCH A LIL EARLY…

  7. Anonymous June 9, 2008

    I wish Usher would go somewhere and sit down and stfu..

  8. Anonymous June 9, 2008

    Usher is gay. It is so obvious.

  9. driZzy June 10, 2008

    i hope she cheats on his ass so that he can b a huge embarrasment.. seriously. In fact, i hope she cheats on him with some other celebrity! LMAO.. that would be hillarious and would def shed light on how much of an ass he’s making himself… HAHAHA

  10. ѕωεεŧpέа June 10, 2008

    That’s exactly my quetion Sam, why is he ALWAYS trying to justify his ‘love’ 4 her, I mean it’s between nobody else but them, but he’s always …..saying too much. But you know what they say, ‘If u tell a lie enough times, someone might fall 4 it.’ …….
    Anonymous: “I wish Usher would go somewhere and sit down and stfu..” <--LOL,me too!!

  11. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    I BELIEVE USHER WANTS TO DO BEY TO

  12. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    I think i kno y he feels as if he has to prove his love for Tameka… Its becuz he mite not really love her, he jus married her becuz he was havin a kid with her. I mean when he was wit Chilli he didnt have to prove his love 4 her, & everybody cud tell that he really did love her… Truth be told, i think he still wants to be with Chilli (I didnt read Sam’s post about his words on Chilli, so forgive me if i’ve said something that was already a known fact). I never heard Usher talk about how hard it was to stay faithful to Chilli, although now we know that that was challenge for him too, so y is he talkin about it now. But anyway, Usher jus needs 2 get his priorities straight & keep makin music, becuz his love life doesn’t seem to be workin out. But than again, maybe he jus needs to keep it private.

  13. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    usher i love you and the album your the king of R&B if you want to defend your wife then do that thats what a great husband is suppose to do and you just being honest and the world hates honesty so f*** them the ones who got a problem with your marriage are probably alone and fat and ugly or these flammin bottoms so usher do your thing

  14. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    I second that opinion…I think he is GAY also…

  15. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    Y is it that every black male artist whose career is not based on making songs about havin millions of women each night, robbin, killin & stealin from people have to be GAY. I mean c’mon, i’ve heard countless rumors about Usher, Ne-Yo & Chris Brown being gay, o but Lil Wayne’s not. Tell me somethin, if u r suppose to b a hardcore rapper, then y r there pictures of u kissin another man on the lips… I kno imma get attacked for this, so bring it on!!!!

  16. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    Dumb Dumb Dumb…Dumb Dumb Dumb
    He’s A Dumb Dumb Dumb…

    You know what I like that song. IDK why I’m singing it. Just feels good.

    Dumb Dumb Dumb…Dumb Dumb Dumb

    He’s A Dumb Dumb Dumb…

    Boy get a clue…

  17. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    better keep quiet bout tameka or he’ll close this site down as well LOLLLL. what a pathetic little twat he’s become ;/

  18. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    Usher Likes the d*** and the p****

    I think that he has already HAD that S*** BEE

    And Lil wayne like the d*** also just becasue he is this “hard” rapper dont mean a damn thing

  19. tia June 10, 2008

    lol @ the first comment i mean it does kind of seem like he stating the obvious…as usual….if you think about it when he was first running his mouth about doing what a man was supposed to do he made it obvious that he married her because of the baby….now he’s making it obvious that he either is cheating or thinking about it seriously

    but i would just like to say that this is one person i really wish would sit the hell down and shut up,and not only that i wish interviewers would stop asking him questions about his hubby,noone wants to hear about that s*** anymore….everybody always telling beyonce to sit down,but at least when shes “standing up” shes singing and doing her music,not ranting on and on about her personal life…..usher if you really want us to know the real or half way believe you then get your ass a reality tv show…other then that shut the hell up.

  20. Anonymous June 10, 2008

    usher i love you and the album your the king of R&B if you want to defend your wife then do that thats what a great husband is suppose to do and you just being honest and the world hates honesty so f*** them the ones who got a problem with your marriage are probably alone and fat and ugly or these flammin bottoms so usher do your thing

    WRONGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG, THE KING OF R&B IS DEAD, AND THAT WOULD BE MARVIN GAYE, USHER WISH HE HAD THE TALENT OF MARVIN GAYE…….OH YEAH HIS ALBUM STILL SUCKS AND HE IS SUCH A ATTENTION W****, I WOULDNT BE SURPRISED IF MANTEKA AND HER EX HUBBY GOT A THING GOING ON LMAOOOOOOOO JUST LIKE ME AND MISSSSS JONES, MISS JONES, MISS JONES

  21. Anonymous June 11, 2008

    Usher should be more like Marvin Gay, that man did his music and we didn’t hear about his wives. Never heard about Tina’s problems until she left Ike. Problem is he forgets he’s supposed to be a artist, I can see his music this album suffered for it. So hell man just play your damn music and leave your personal business and problems (wife) at home.

  22. Anonymous June 11, 2008

    I agree that Usher should b more like Marvin Gaye on the personal side, but Usher is definitley the king of R&B, he’s given us timeless hits like “You Make Me Wanna”, “Nice & Slow”, “You Remind Me”, “U Got It Bad”, “Confessions”, “Burn”, “My Boo”, “Love In This Club” & the list can go on, but i’m jus gonna stop rite there. I’m sure that Marvin Gaye would even agree to Usher bein crowned as the king of R&B!

  23. Anonymous June 11, 2008

    If Usher’s album sucks then why r people buyin it, as a matter of fact why r you even botherin 2 comment on how it sucks?

  24. Anonymous June 12, 2008

    i hope she does cheat cause usher has a big head the size of his nose he talks of himself as being some great legend hes nothing compared to real legends such as micheal jackson whom he always copies

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