The happily married singer Ciara has come under fire after she shared a video she hoped would encourage women to set higher standards for themselves when choosing partners.
Ciara said you can’t be on twitter begging for money via CashApp and expect niggas to marry you.
— football? what’s that? (@Meauxses_) 21 January 2018
Fire and fury from what Ciara fans are calling an assorted group of never-do-wells below…
— Ciara (@ciara) 20 January 2018
The inspirational and accurate message was met with flames from those triggered by its message.
I think you & your family are wonderful, but this is a trash take. Marriage isn’t a reward for good behavior. Teaching women they’re “unworthy” is part of the reason so many end up settling for relationships where they’re disrespected and unappreciated.
— K I A R A (@_DamnGina_) 21 January 2018
What one man requires from a wife is not the same as what another man requires so i really don’t know how we are supposed to be walking in this “spirit of a wife”
— Robyn Jaye (@missrobynjaye) 21 January 2018
Why’s it always on the woman to better herself? They always leave out that men should be doing the same or the fact that he would need to be looking for a wife in the first place? Too many are not. And you pick each other, it’s not this sexist old school one-sided business 🙄
— Kyla (@misskyky99) 21 January 2018
Man! U could’ve kept ur opinion 2 yourself on this one. I understand where ur coming from but everybody makes mistakes including u. didn’t u [email protected] a baby before you were married? According to that u should’ve waited to you had that ring on your finger
— Bajanbound2 (@bronxbound2965) 21 January 2018
This man is transphobic and a misogynist so if you’re going to uplift a wrong and damaging thought, using him to do it is an extra slap in the face.
— Optimus Fine (@sunnydaejones) 21 January 2018
Ciara’s playing a dangerous game. You should never, no matter how perfect your relationship/marriage appears to be, sit on a throne and tell people why they’re not romantically successful. You can be the queen of the ball today and have cake in your face tomorrow!
— January 29th (@KevCoke6) 21 January 2018
I dislike the video that Ciara posted on her page. A pastor talking about “too many women want to be married but are still walking in the spirit of girlfriend”
— Kelechi Okafor (@kelechnekoff) 20 January 2018
Every so often, Ciara does something that reminds you to be grateful for the time Rihanna got her ass together on Twitter.
— Michael Arceneaux (@youngsinick) 21 January 2018
It wasn’t all bad though.
See the problem is, bare minimum Twitter only knows how to fuck and suck dick. Ciara’s post just opened their eyes to the fact that they not walking in the spirit of a wife. But the spirit of a side chick.
— la sniper⚜️ (@_BriaPlease) 21 January 2018
Here are the facts:
1. Ciara didn’t TELL y’all to get married or in anyway insinuate that she was better then anyone’s who isn’t married.
2. The pastor did NOT tell ALL women to do ANYTHING for a man to see your worth. He simply challenged you to check your own.
— Bridge♡ (@DntBurnUrBRIDGE) 21 January 2018
Ciara said act like a wife and you’ll find a husband and y’all hate her for it but when Cardi said a hoe never gets cold you bitches stopped buying jackets.. I don’t understand 🤦🏽♂️
— Deondre (@Mrgrey_) 21 January 2018
Notice it’s “I don’t need a title in a relationship” and “My son is my man” Twitter is angry as hell at what Ciara said
— Kevin Brown (@PlayaKB) 21 January 2018
Twitter: be a hoe
Yall: Yas! I feel this! A mood! A concept!
Ciara: carry yourself as a wife
— AJ (@ImAJBro) 21 January 2018
Y’all would take advise from cardi b but not Ciara LMAOOOOOOOOO
— Daenerys (@ohnoameerah) 21 January 2018
Ciara said you hoes wanna be married but out here being hoes, show me the lie!
— Jasmin No E Hoe (@WholeLotta_JAZZ) 21 January 2018