The happily married singer Ciara has come under fire after she shared a video she hoped would encourage women to set higher standards for themselves when choosing partners.
Ciara said you can’t be on twitter begging for money via CashApp and expect niggas to marry you.
— football? what’s that? (@Meauxses_) 21 January 2018
Fire and fury from what Ciara fans are calling an assorted group of never-do-wells below…
#LevelUp pic.twitter.com/rmS0WMOV1B
— Ciara (@ciara) 20 January 2018
The inspirational and accurate message was met with flames from those triggered by its message.
I think you & your family are wonderful, but this is a trash take. Marriage isn’t a reward for good behavior. Teaching women they’re “unworthy” is part of the reason so many end up settling for relationships where they’re disrespected and unappreciated.
— K I A R A (@_DamnGina_) 21 January 2018
What one man requires from a wife is not the same as what another man requires so i really don’t know how we are supposed to be walking in this “spirit of a wife”
— Robyn Jaye (@missrobynjaye) 21 January 2018
Why’s it always on the woman to better herself? They always leave out that men should be doing the same or the fact that he would need to be looking for a wife in the first place? Too many are not. And you pick each other, it’s not this sexist old school one-sided business ?
— Kyla (@misskyky99) 21 January 2018
Man! U could’ve kept ur opinion 2 yourself on this one. I understand where ur coming from but everybody makes mistakes including u. didn’t u b@have a baby before you were married? According to that u should’ve waited to you had that ring on your finger
— Bajanbound2 (@bronxbound2965) 21 January 2018
This man is transphobic and a misogynist so if you’re going to uplift a wrong and damaging thought, using him to do it is an extra slap in the face.
— Optimus Fine (@sunnydaejones) 21 January 2018
Ciara’s playing a dangerous game. You should never, no matter how perfect your relationship/marriage appears to be, sit on a throne and tell people why they’re not romantically successful. You can be the queen of the ball today and have cake in your face tomorrow!
— January 29th (@KevCoke6) 21 January 2018
I dislike the video that Ciara posted on her page. A pastor talking about “too many women want to be married but are still walking in the spirit of girlfriend”
— Kelechi Okafor (@kelechnekoff) 20 January 2018
Every so often, Ciara does something that reminds you to be grateful for the time Rihanna got her ass together on Twitter.
— Michael Arceneaux (@youngsinick) 21 January 2018
It wasn’t all bad though.
See the problem is, bare minimum Twitter only knows how to fuck and suck dick. Ciara’s post just opened their eyes to the fact that they not walking in the spirit of a wife. But the spirit of a side chick.
— la sniper⚜️ (@_BriaPlease) 21 January 2018
Here are the facts:
1. Ciara didn’t TELL y’all to get married or in anyway insinuate that she was better then anyone’s who isn’t married.
2. The pastor did NOT tell ALL women to do ANYTHING for a man to see your worth. He simply challenged you to check your own.
— Bridge♡ (@DntBurnUrBRIDGE) 21 January 2018
Ciara said act like a wife and you’ll find a husband and y’all hate her for it but when Cardi said a hoe never gets cold you bitches stopped buying jackets.. I don’t understand ??♂️
— Deondre (@Mrgrey_) 21 January 2018
Notice it’s “I don’t need a title in a relationship” and “My son is my man” Twitter is angry as hell at what Ciara said
— Kevin Brown (@PlayaKB) 21 January 2018
Twitter: be a hoe
Yall: Yas! I feel this! A mood! A concept!Ciara: carry yourself as a wife
Yall: pic.twitter.com/hnYY9mEb6r— AJ (@ImAJBro) 21 January 2018
Y’all would take advise from cardi b but not Ciara LMAOOOOOOOOO
— Daenerys (@ohnoameerah) 21 January 2018
Ciara said you hoes wanna be married but out here being hoes, show me the lie!
— Jasmin No E Hoe (@WholeLotta_JAZZ) 21 January 2018
Future anyone????????
50cent.. Sorry video was for him
So you never made mistakes? You know about Ciara’s body count but do you know about your mother’s?
Do you see any numbers on my post?? Stop defending as if you are her secret B****** son. Not my fault she is not claiming you ? Go and find your real mum.
It does not matter we as people, husband and wife need same things in life for survival, love, communication, respect I don’t care how you cut the pie it’s not no big difference and I feel if you don’t have basic hard to survive in marriage and that’s what she is saying and we do settle at times for the like of..my take..
Why the only time I hear about Ciara it’s always something about her husband or her child??? It’s never about her music or talent! She really shouldn’t be salty bcuz b4 she married Russell she was all for that baby mama lifestyle… taking pictures with them & all… I guess she just still salty bcuz he cheated & never married her… she was so hungry to have that Bey & Jay type relationship & attention… knowing all along he was never gonna marry her & was no good!
$18 mil and 25 mil sold
Covergirl Revlon Movies &Tv shows
TELl Another lie
@Faf – ha! No one is buying Covergirl OR Revlon because of Ciara. Covergirl is grandfathered in and Revlon was branded by Hailee. TV shows? Where Sway? Ciara WANTS to be a socialite. SHE AIN’T and NEVA will be. A sad truth.
This is why everything she brings in MUSIC will be garbage because her heart NOR her head or anything else is in it. She’s too busy trying to PLAY SOMEBODY instead of BEING somebody. Poor girl.
Maybe the wording isn’t everyone’s liking but I get the sentiment.., basically, people ready for a healthy relationship will find each other but if you’re a ‘I was cool with no commitment (wait) let me take that back, you was cool so I was with it’ -type #IsSheTheReason lol then you’ll attract that energy instead cos a man clearly doesn’t need to commit in order to have you ‘open’.
She got nerve, acting as if Future never happened. B****, you are and always will be his baby mama, whether you have found another guy that was willing to get you pregnant after a short time again afterwards, or not.
Where is Rihanna when you need her?
Erm. Future was her ex. We’ve all had them. Difference is that she learned from her mistake which is why she isn’t with him today. She isn’t like those women who stick with deadbeat cheaters.
@Bey – She didn’t learn from anything. She just jumped on a new “D” in the hopes that a lame would save her soiled image.
@superstar! Exactly, otherwise she wouldn’t have married and became pregnant again in the blink of an eye…
Why buy the cow when the milk is free? You girls are out here busting it open for dudes who clearly don’t take you seriously and wonder why none of the men you want think enough of you to marry you. Then you wonder why those same men go on to marry other women. They do want to get married but Just not to you. Only promiscuous girls will be offended by this.
Dude, what are you even saying. She gave it up to Russell BEFORE marriage. Ciara CHASED RUSSELL DOWN. Puh-lease! She is in NO POSITION to give any woman, let alone a single one, any advice about PREPARING for marriage when she found a sucker, set her sights and tackled him from BEHIND to make her look like a respectable woman.
Having s** with someone you intend to marry isn’t the same as spreading your legs for any man who seems right at the time. She and Russell are raising a family in the glory of God because they are both on the same page. That is not the same as being in a shoddy fling and calling it a relationship.
U a lie Russell said they abstained
Were u in her p****? Even if she did
They married now u mad at the over 100mil together?
The fact she don’t have to hire Arabs for pool photo ops?
@Haus.. – Babe, here’s the crux of her argument. A woman becomes a wife when a man lays eyes on her. (Her words) But here’s the thing. The man has to SEE YOU and SEE YOU CLEARLY in order to do that and Russell did NOT do that. Sorry NOT sorry, but I’m not buying that Ciara is my DREAM GIRL B.S. he was trying to sell. HIS FIRST WIFE, BECKY, is his dream girl and I don’t care how many blonde wings Ciara she puts on she will ALWAYS BE a NUTCRACKER and that’s it.
Again, she’s NOT the woman to dispense advise on the “proper way” to do or be to A-N-Y-B-O-D-Y.
*blonde WIGS
His dream girl cheated and he left? Just like Ciara left Russell
U whores are heAted cool off ?
@Faf – She left and he STILL wasn’t looking at Ciara. Like I stated before SHE tackled him. ALL- ABOUT-THE-IMAGE. Oh and W**** is right because that’s what Ciara is as she advised single women to LEVEL UP. hahaha
#Stay Ghetto
@Faf – You’re CLEARLY a moron. They did NOT abstain dear. Ciara is a LOSER who RAN after a man that was squeaky to clean up her F’d up reputation. The same F’d up reputation that SHE created. It is what it is man.
#Facts
#Deal
@Faf – They didn’t abstain. It all came out. You must have been living under a rock and based on your verbiage you aren’t far from living under one.
#Ghetto
The saddest cases are the ones where girls get pregnant thinking it’ll inspire their boyfriends to get serious. The story is always the same. The dudes abandon the mother and child because deep down they never had any intentions of raising a family and the women raise their kids with anger and bitterness became the poor child has no idea why their foolish father wants nothing to do with them. Stop lying to yourselves sisters. These dudes just aren’t that into you.
Funny, you just told the story of how Ciara became a mother.
Actually, it‘s not as if that video doesn’t have a point. It’s just the fact that out of all, she was the one posting it. The celebrity Baby mama of future, that guy that has 500 children from 499 women. She should be lucky that she found a guy foolish enough to marry her, though it was just obvious that she simply wanted that celebrity couple status. But sitting on a throne and throw stones at other girls, no ma‘am, you‘re not in that position.
Oh right cause Ciara is a model citizen for being a “wife.” Ms. He-Love-the-Way-I-Ride-It aka Future’s-23rd-baby-mama.
Funny how the luck of finding a man to take care of another man’s child got her feeling sanctified. H*** become housewives and forget their past h** status real quick.
Let me guess. You’re single right?
Lol. No I’m not. Lemme guess… you’re a h o e right?
I never liked those women who get married and suddenly think they’re in a position to guide everyone else to the promised land. It really reminds me of those 18 year olds who, as soon as they turn 18, think they came into some exclusive wisdom. They’re grown and they know everything. You turned 18 at midnight but you’re still as dumb as you were at 11:59 pm. You see the same thing with married women. Stop trying to position yourself to be someone who has any place telling other women how to act or behave to get a husband. Ciara, really needs to mind her business because her dating history is nothing to be proud of, regardless of where she ended up, and at the very least, she should extend her unsolicited advice and opinions to both men and women.
B**** shut up
She dated and married wealthy
Who u dating ?
Lol, is that an accomplishment? Wow. Ciara dated and married wealthy. That is impressive. It’s unfortunate that you decided her life success is defined by her connection to a rich man but I’m a single girl in grad school, focused on my career. Doing the damn thing. And I especially like how you alluded to my relationship status as if being single or not being attached to a wealthy man would ever be anything to be ashamed of. You’re pathetic sis. It’s not surprising that you adopted that mentality though. Some people just aren’t capable of doing it themselves… *shrugs*
What does it matter who she dating? That’s how you define someone’s worth?
Ciara just posted a video that told y’all what ya mama and daddy (if he was around) should have told you when you were a child. If Ciara never put her values in order and stayed with Feature, she would STILL be with his no good @ss and missed out of Russel. This girl was engaged, just had a baby and made the right choice to not just be another baby mama anf found a husband. Some of y’all won’t even end a relationship (most can’t even call it that because they still “just talking” for years) because you’re too scared to “start over”.
@Mark.. – Ciara can’t dispense any advice. SHE RAN AFTER a lame to clean up her image. He didn’t FIND her. So the fact that she is giving other women inspirational quotes, etc about FINDING a mate or BEING an ideal mate is COMICAL when LOVE didn’t find her. She hunted down a clueless MORON to create an image of WHOLESOMENESS.
She really just needs to sit and look kinda pretty and keep her mouth shut. And YES I mean even keep it shut when she chooses to sing again.
Smh… wow. People are really mad at my girl for pretty much posting a self-reflection on her timeline. Sharing to the world something she related to, that I’m sure others shared in common as well.
@Lake.. – Dude she said “LEVEL UP.” That basically says that she AIMED FOR A DUDE that is BETTER than her. Now had this been the flavor of the week of some of these entertainers: rappers, singers etc. she’d be called a GOLD DIGGER or THOT. So what does this say about Ciara eh?
***IN-HER-OWN-WORDS***
Am I the only one who saw the video of the pastor and thought he was flaming from the way he was spinning around?
Future, 50, bow wow, and several others. Sis finally found someone to sponsor her behind and she want to give advice. Must be dropping a single
If you listen to the video there’s a part in the sermon where he says, “too many woman who want to be married, walking in the spirit of girlfriend.” So to me there was actually an intended audience if you listen closely, so why does everyone seem offended, if you’re not trying to get married then……. and besides these words never came out her mouth, she may have consigned on the message but hey it’s better than glorifying the h**-ism culture that is so rampant. Ciara may have had every boyfriend of hers in her music videos, and you can call her a h** if you want, but I guess she’s saying she’s went through a few bad apples in the barrel until she found the right one, and she’s only showing the the world if you as a female went through that it can change for you.
@Kdot – Save it! Where was the I LOVE MYSELF BEFORE she got her tits done? Where was the SELF-LOVE BEFORE she got her nose done or BEFORE she started bleaching? Ciara is walking in the spirit of a FOLLOWER aka a PUPPY. She BECOMES WHOMEVER IS LEADING HER because she has NO IDENTITY. Since this is the case THIS WOMAN has absolutely NO CAUSE TO DISPENSE ROMANTIC/RELATIONSHIP advice to ANYONE.
Yeah she’s acting all high and mighty because she marired and she seems to think that she’s so virtuous because she waited until she got married until she had s** with her husband. However she forgets that she had a child out of wedlock with a rapper who had loads of other girls on the go at the same time as her.
Wasn’t ciara just side chick to future.
Speaking some sense
http://m.tmz.com/#2016/03/10/kocktails-with-khloe-kardashian-russell-wilson-ciara/